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30 relationship check in questions to ask your partner

30 relationship check in questions to ask your partner

Hello everyone and welcome to a new post for this week. I’m back with a new relationship post. And this is one of the important topics in a healthy relationship. You will know about relationship check in questions. Please read through until the end because everything in this post is very important to get.

Also, I would love to know how many times you do a relationship check-in with your partner. Are you in a serious relationship? Hopefully, after this post, you will be able to maintain a good and intimate relationship with your partner. I’m going not just going to mention the questions.

30 relationship check-in questions to ask your partner

Table of Contents

  • 30 relationship check-in questions to ask your partner
  • Benefits of checking in on your partner
  • Conclusion of 30 relationship check in questions to ask your partner

Well, before I start mention the questions. There are a few important that I want to share with you. Such as overthinking, doubting, and trust. Asking questions some people might think that is because of jealousy. That’s not right and I will explain the difference between jealousy and check-ins. This way, you don’t doubt yourself when trying to ask questions like the ones I will mention.

There are many questions we need to ask our partners and each other. However, I tried my best to mention to you the main and important ones. I highly recommend based on your situation and how things going with your partner. Please do not hesitate to ask questions and check in on your partner.

Q: What is the difference between jealousy and check-ins?

A: The intention of the question. You can tell the difference from the intention. Some questions can be intended to be jealous which is not good. However, that should not be your reason but to check in on your partner and make sure things going well. Also, how many times and the time of asking the questions can determine.

There are ways to prevent jealousy to get you. Whether you are a boyfriend or girlfriend. Make sure both of you have nothing to hide. And you need to mention what something you looking for from asking. If it’s jealousy, you won’t be able to do that. Tell your partner that it’s just to check in.

FYI

When you first tell your loved partner why you asking. She or he won’t have to overthink it. Sometimes people might think differently when it’s just relationship checkup questions. Don’t forget to mention why you asking your partner the questions and be clear. That help to develop good communication between the two of you.

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Now that I started first talking about that. Please ask your loved one without any jealousy. It’s one of the things that ruin healthy relations and can happen anytime. Even after a long time being together with your partner. Should never be jealous and only check in and ensure you miss nothing.

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Q: What is the relationship check in?

A: Great question and I’m sure some of you have this one. The check-in is when a partner ensures things are going well with the other partner either daily, weekly, or even monthly. Usually, it starts with questions but sometimes partners just share news and how they feel. However, we need to make sure to not forget anything. It helps to build good communication with each other.

Important point

Check-ins are very important for anything in the relationship. Cheating can be the main cause of people not checking in on their partners. And I have many around that lacking doing this. You can work together on this to make sure both are in with everything happening. Improve your bond by following these relationship check-in questions.

Q: How many times do we need to check in on each other?

A: Good question if you have this in mind. Well, depending on the type of questions. Some of them are weekly, and some of them are daily. Maybe after something occurs you can ask. You need to know when to ask the questions and always have the intention to check for the better of the relationship and the partner’s health.

I think the weekly relationship check in questions can be more used. Because it would be the best time to check on each other. However, if you have something going on. Don’t mind if you ask daily and check in on your partner. I’m sure couples appreciate that as well.

Benefits of checking in on your partner

  • Stay up to date with everything going on
  • Know if something not going good
  • Solve an issue before it becomes a big problem
  • Make sure you both enjoy each other companies
  • Ensure to help your partner first when they need
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There are many good things that you can focus on doing this. And that’s the only reason why you need to ask any questions to your partner. Unless there are some trust issues or something wrong happened. That would be different and need to be handled differently.

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Here are some awesome relationship quotes that can show working together for a healthy relationship is good.

Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. By Oprah Winfrey

Fall in love with someone who makes you glad to be different. By Sue Zhao

Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That’s why it’s a comfort to go hand in hand. By Emily Kimbrough

I’m going to share as many important questions as possible. The relationship checkup is really important. However, I highly recommend you do the relationship check in questions more often. And if you found these helpful, I would appreciate it if you can share them with others as well.

Q: Why do you need to keep checking on your partner?

A: Well, sometimes we don’t share everything unless someone asks us. Therefore, it would be better if you keep making sure that you don’t let your partner suffer. It’s good to keep in the loop about each other. Nowadays, things can be toxic, and depressing. So, relationship checkup questions can be helpful.

FYI

The questions below are organized into categories and types of things that we need to pay attention to. Each one has many questions. And each one is really important to enjoy whether you guys are couples and feel loved. Have a lovely relationship with your partner consider asking your partner.

Journaling with love.
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General relationship check-in questions

1- How do you feel about how things going in our relationship?

2- Mention things that you like and don’t like about how we do things so far…

3- What are the things we need to change to have a healthy relationship?

4- Are we missing something in the relationship?

5- Is our relationship fun and entertaining?

Intimacy and spicy questions

6- Do you enjoy our intimacy or should we change something?

7- Are we overdoing it? (sexual intercourse)

8- Do we have good communication during sexual intercourse?

9- Is there any new position that you enjoy?

10- From experience, what is your favorite position?

Future relationship questions check-in

11- How are we doing with our future relationship plans?

12- What are some of the things we need to work on for the future?

13- Do have plans to do it tomorrow, after two days, or any time in the future?

14- Are we ready for marriage or how do we get ready?

15- What are things we need to prepare for having kids or what do we need to develop for better parenting?

Finance relationship check-in

16- How are we doing financially?

17- Do we need to improve something to improve our finances?

18- What do you need to buy in the future?

19- Are you happy with how we deal with the money being together?

20- Do we buy everything we need or what else we are missing that we need?

Self-check-in on each other

21- How was your day today?

22- Is there anything bothering you or something want to tell me?

23- What are the things that upset you that I do?

24- How do you feel?

25- How are things going with you and the family?

Friends and people check-in

26- How are things going with your friends?

27- What’s new with you at work?

28- Are there new friends you talking with?

29- How are things going with social media and chatting?

30- Any plans with your friends or people?

Conclusion of 30 relationship check in questions to ask your partner

30 relationship check-in questions
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Thank you for reading until this point. Sharing some of the important questions couples, and people in a relationship can ask to check in on each other. Explained as much as possible about this topic and why we need to do it. Also, the difference between jealousy and checking in on your partner. Hope you can find these relationship checkup questions helpful.

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What are your thoughts on these check-in questions? Do you have any other important one that is not on the list?

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Written by Fransic verso - January 17, 2023
Tags | relationship check in questions, relationship check-in questions, relationship goals, relationship tips, tips for relationships

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90 Comments

  • Katie January 17, 2023 at 9:08 am

    I love that you included a segment about the difference between checking in and jealousy – that’s such an important thing to consider.

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:39 pm

      Yeah, it’s very important for people to know haha. Thank you for commenting!

      Reply
  • JamieAdStories January 17, 2023 at 11:45 am

    They are useful and relevant questions for friends and lovers.

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:39 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts!

      Reply
  • Debbie January 17, 2023 at 12:07 pm

    I completely feel communication is vital for relationships. These are some really great questions to facilitate an open dialogue between partners. Very interesting!

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:37 pm

      Right? it’s very important. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Lily January 17, 2023 at 12:23 pm

    These questions will help so much to the people in relationships as with us 🥰
    Great deep questions with the partner 🙌💖
    I love you 💕

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:36 pm

      That’s good to know. Thank you so much, love <3 and I love you too <3

      Reply
  • Her Digital Coffee January 17, 2023 at 12:28 pm

    Communication is so important in relationships and you’ve included some great questions for checking in. Thank you for sharing!

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:36 pm

      I agree, it’s very important to have a good communication.

      Reply
  • tianna January 17, 2023 at 12:34 pm

    This is very relevant, i needed something like this now have to figure out how to bring it up in conversation

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:35 pm

      Tha’s awesome, glad to know it’s something that is needed for you. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Jeanette January 17, 2023 at 1:03 pm

    Absolutely loved this read! Thank you so much for putting this out there. This is so important. I’m in a long term relationship, we don’t live together at the moment, so communication is key! He suffers with his mental health so we absolutely keep asking every serious question. He’ll always ask me how my day was and we are really honest with each other

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:35 pm

      I’m glad that you loved it. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Basic With Life January 17, 2023 at 1:42 pm

    Another brilliant post 🎉. Checking in on your relationship is paramount. It’s a simple way to keep current with your relationship status. People change and other social factors so it’s a good idea just to check in and make sure that you’re both on the same page. As my grandmother always says, communication in a relationship is important.

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:34 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your feedback!!

      Reply
  • Molly | Transatlantic Notes January 17, 2023 at 1:58 pm

    These are some good questions to ask; very insightful! My husband and I check-in with each other in various ways so this was a useful addition to that!

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:33 pm

      I’m glad to know that you find them great questions. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Mummy Conquering Anxiety January 17, 2023 at 5:04 pm

    These are great questions to ask. Really thought provoking. Sending them to my hubby now!

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:30 pm

      Thank you for sharing your feedback about these questions.

      Reply
  • Hari January 17, 2023 at 6:19 pm

    These are seriously fabulous questions every couple must ask in certain point of their relationship. Well thought-out post. Thank you so much for creating this gem.

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:27 pm

      I’m glad you found them fabulous haha. I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!

      Reply
  • Beth January 17, 2023 at 9:37 pm

    I love to check in with questions. It always leads to meaningful conversations and they are way different from being jealous or keeping tabs on your partner.

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:27 pm

      Awesome, it’s very important to do check-ins. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Ramil Hinolan January 17, 2023 at 10:30 pm

    As in any relationship, communication is always the key. Share your thoughts and listen to what the others are saying. The best question is: Are we overdoing it? ha..ha..ha..

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:26 pm

      Hahaha, good question. Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback!

      Reply
  • Mayumi January 17, 2023 at 11:26 pm

    This looks like a really extensive and detailed list of prompts for better communication with your partner! And it also gives you an opportunity not just to voice your thoughts, but to self-reflect as well.

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    • Fransic verso January 17, 2023 at 11:38 pm

      Yeah, it’s very important to do both. I’m glad to know that you find a good one. I appreciate you reading!

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  • Under Flowery Sky January 18, 2023 at 2:33 am

    Very interesting post and motivating topic, surely strenghtening the relationship..

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:53 pm

      Thank you for your lovely feedback. I appreciate you for reading!

      Reply
  • Jenny in Neverland January 18, 2023 at 2:37 am

    Some good questions to consider here. Always important to check in with each other daily x

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:52 pm

      Glad to know that you find it helpful. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Katherine January 18, 2023 at 4:36 am

    This is such a great list of prompts for people to spark a true interest!

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:52 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your feedback!

      Reply
  • Tweenselmom January 18, 2023 at 4:58 am

    Relationship check-ins are important for staying updated on your partner’s wants and needs. Thanks for providing questions 🙂

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:51 pm

      Yup, important to keep in touch and up to date with your partner. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Lisa's Notebook January 18, 2023 at 6:28 am

    I think when you live with someone, particularly for a long time, it’s easy to take things for granted. This was a good list, I can see several questions I’ll be asking my husband going forwards, thank you.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:50 pm

      Yeah, I agree with you. We need to make sure to ask each other. That’s awesome you got something from this. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Kelly Diane January 18, 2023 at 7:02 am

    These are great questions to ask. I love the idea of having a check in every so often. When you’re a team, you want to make sure you’re on the same page.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:49 pm

      Right? it’s essential we need make sure to check in on each other. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Unwanted Life January 18, 2023 at 7:10 am

    These all sound like reasonable this to discuss with a partner, and if you’re not able to, maybe you need to ask why that is, because healthy communication is important to a relationship

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:48 pm

      Yeah, we need to make sure that communication is very important. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Eric Gamble January 18, 2023 at 7:51 am

    These are great questions to ask and I love how you broke down all the Relationship Check in Questions by subcategories because sometimes we may be fine financially or with house work but our intimacy sucks. I will say that since you shared that the difference between jealousy and check-ins is intention, that in order to prevent a fight or misunderstanding these types of Relationship questions should be done in person or at minimum Verbally on a phone call. Since inflection is often misinterpreted via text or email that can often cause problems or confusion.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:47 pm

      Yeah, thank you so much. I agree, we need to call and talk face-to-face. Because sometimes body can speak. I appreciate you reading and sharing your comment!

      Reply
  • LG January 18, 2023 at 8:12 am

    I love that you differentiated between check in and jealousy. I think checking in provides clarity in a relationship. Great example questions too because often we don’t know where to start with questioning.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:46 pm

      Right? it’s important people need focus on it. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Amy January 18, 2023 at 8:21 am

    These are great questions. I bet a lot of relationships might survive if couples had open conversations about difficult situations.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:45 pm

      Yeah, it would help to avoid cheating in many relationships. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Aubrey January 18, 2023 at 9:28 am

    This post is a wonderful reminder to check in. Not just with your partner, but with your coworkers, friends, family. It’s so easy to get wrapped up with things going on in your own world/head that you start missing the signs that something needs to be talked about. Thanks so much for sharing this post!!

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:45 pm

      I’m glad you find it a wonderful reminder. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Jodie January 18, 2023 at 10:41 am

    Very useful and helpful suggestions to use at any point in the relationship. Thanks for sharing Fransic!

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:44 pm

      I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!

      Reply
  • Susan January 18, 2023 at 10:59 am

    I think relationships are so much better when we ask each other these kinds of questions. It makes your partner feel valued that you are truly interested in them while increasing communication and understanding. You hit the nail on the head with this one!

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:43 pm

      Yeah, we need to check on each other more often. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Sarah Collins January 18, 2023 at 11:45 am

    Communication is so important for relationships, asking those important questions and actually listening to the answers

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:42 pm

      Yup, we need to make sure that we are good at communication. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • vidya January 18, 2023 at 12:03 pm

    Love the various topics you covered.. I know I need to do financial check-ins more proactively from my side 🙂 so these questions help..
    and love those quotes you included – especially the one by Sue Zhao

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:42 pm

      That’s awesome and glad to know that you loved it. I appreciate you reading!

      Reply
  • Tahila January 18, 2023 at 12:52 pm

    This was so insightful, thanks for sharing.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:41 pm

      I’m glad to know that you find them insightful. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • Danielle Maxwell January 18, 2023 at 4:11 pm

    Thank you for sharing! Great questions!

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:38 pm

      I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!

      Reply
  • Melissa January 18, 2023 at 4:12 pm

    This is a great idea! I love that you separated the questions into different types. What a great way to connect with your partner 🙂

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:38 pm

      Thank you for reading and giving us your thoughts about this.

      Reply
  • Olga January 18, 2023 at 5:21 pm

    Thank you for sharing the information. I honestly didn’t know that jealousy can be correlated with a check-in. Insightfull

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:38 pm

      Yeah, some people might see it as jealousy. I appreciate you reading!

      Reply
  • Kristy Bullard January 18, 2023 at 8:00 pm

    It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been in a relationship, it’s important to communicate with each other. It helps make the relationship stronger.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:37 pm

      Yeah, it’s very important to keep in touch with each other.

      Reply
  • Pastor Natalie (ExamineThisMoment) January 18, 2023 at 8:10 pm

    I appreciate this post. Thank you for sharing!

    Pastor Natalie (ExamineThisMoment)
    Letstakeamoment.com

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:36 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your lovely comment!

      Reply
  • Monidipa January 18, 2023 at 11:48 pm

    Communication is a very important part in a relationship be it about anything. The extensive questionnaire you have shared keeps a check on everything.

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    • Fransic verso January 18, 2023 at 11:56 pm

      I agree with you and we need to make sure that we work on it.

      Reply
  • Ntensibe Edgar January 19, 2023 at 2:22 am

    Nnnniiiccceeee…I endeavour so much to ask these questions….like “how was your day?” but the first responses are always wanting!

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:54 pm

      Yeah, it’s nice to ask question and check up on each other.

      Reply
  • AnnaClaire January 19, 2023 at 6:42 am

    Love this post, thanks for sharing! I really like the questions. Very useful information in this post.

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:52 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts!

      Reply
  • Neely Moldovan January 19, 2023 at 10:07 am

    I think this would be great for any relationship! Such a good idea!

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:44 pm

      Glad to know that and that is the goal. Thank you for your feedback!

      Reply
  • Eleanor Jones January 19, 2023 at 10:16 am

    Little check-ins can mean so much when you’re in a relationship. I think asking how someone’s day has been is a great one- it’s so simple, but it can help someone to open up if they’ve not had the best day x

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:43 pm

      Right? it helps a lot even if it’s little. Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  • leena January 19, 2023 at 2:03 pm

    Brilliant post! Communication is so important for all relationships thanks for highlighting this

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:41 pm

      Thank you so much for your lovely feedback.

      Reply
  • adelaide January 20, 2023 at 1:57 am

    This a great post! the communication in a relationship is definitely what makes it work, when a couple express to each other their feelings, fears, opinions and their expectations of life they create the basis of trust and love. Thanks for share.
    xxx
    Adelaide

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    • Fransic verso January 20, 2023 at 11:19 pm

      I’m glad you find it a great post. Thank you for reading and sharing your thougts!

      Reply
  • Ramil Hinolan January 20, 2023 at 9:06 am

    Great list of questions. It is always better to check on each other (by asking the check-in questions) to know that you and your partner are on the same boat.

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    • Fransic verso January 20, 2023 at 11:11 pm

      I’m glad to know that you found them great questions!

      Reply
  • SL Takiguchi January 20, 2023 at 11:10 pm

    Enjoyed this post! These questions are important, especially the ones relating to finances. Sometimes it’s tough to talk about these topics because they’re uncomfortable, but I like this idea of consistent ‘check-in’s with specific questions. Thanks for sharing!

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    • Fransic verso January 20, 2023 at 11:21 pm

      Yeah, it’s very important to make sure we check in each other.

      Reply
  • Prajakta January 29, 2023 at 5:10 am

    That is a very good list and very helpful for any couple. Check-in with your partner is very good for a healthy and happy relationship.

    Reply
    • Fransic verso January 29, 2023 at 11:30 pm

      Awesome, thank you so much for reading and sharing your feedback!

      Reply

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