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How to Be a Good Boyfriend and Build a healthy relationship

How to Be a Good Boyfriend and Build a healthy relationship

Hello everyone and welcome to a new blog post for this week. Well, this week I skipped posting on Wednesday for having so much work to do. However, today I’m back with another post. I want to share about relationships and talk about something important. How to Be a Good Boyfriend is going to be the topic.

Building a healthy relationship is not that easy. And need to make sure that everything is good. I want mention some tips to help you do that as a boyfriend. Some important things to look for if you want to make sure that. Because it might not be easy to have a good relationship but it would be fun with the right partner.

How to Be a Good Boyfriend and Build a healthy relationship

It’s been a while since I talked about relationships. And before I start, do you know what it means to be a good boyfriend? Something we should ask ourselves to understand how to get it. Well, I want to talk about that as well in this post. As it will help to know better about this.

Don’t be afraid of what people say about having a good relationship. Honestly, you would enjoy the process of building it regardless it’s difficult or not. And becoming a good boyfriend might not be so fast. Need to work on it and that might take some time more than you expect.

Q: Is being a good boyfriend affect the relationship?

A: Well, simple answer, it won’t be negative. However, if it’s too good, that wouldn’t be good for the relationship. Some people think might be but don’t go out of your way to be too good for your partner. Because anything that is too much will not be healthy anyway. One of the signs that is means you are overdoing it as a boyfriend.

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Some people are too nice but they get hurt from their partner. Honestly, I appreciate that but I don’t recommend being too nice and too good. It just makes it sound you trying hard and that will ruin the relationship. Therefore, highly recommend to stay normal, keep things balanced. I will mention some of the qualities to help know more.

Important point:

Normal relationship is enough. Being good boyfriend is nice but remember you don’t have to be every time. Unless your partner ask or need it. Sometimes people might be good dong thing even when they werent asked for help. This is not good because your partner will be bored and need to do things too.

I mention this because it might break the relationship. Something very important and many nice boyfriends do it. There wil lbe things on the list below to help you know about this more. So, keep reading to know more about it. And learn how to control it being good boyfrind.

Q: How do I know if my boyfriend is good?

A: I will mention below how to know a good boyfriend. But it should be easy to spot a good boyfriend from what he do, say and think. All should be good and positive otherwise, it won’t be good. Because could imagie if someone nice but have bad inteniton, that makes the person bad.

Perfect boyfriend is not someone who have everything already. However, the person who always work to improve and develop a better version of him. The person that work hard on improving, getting better is the perfect. Because even we come from different backgrounds.

It still will take time to adjust and learn how to do things together. You can’t expect someone to be without mistakes and already know everything.

Traits of a good boyfriend

  1. 1- Have respect
  2. Communcation is good
  3. Honesty is a priority
  4. Kindness is always there
  5. Does have romance
  6. Avaliable to help when needed

I can imagine a boyfriend might have more such as love to give you and buy things. There are more but the list above are some of the most common things. And you would notice these like I said before from what your boyfriend does, say and think. You will know if things will be good for both of you.


Maybe your boyfriend don’t have the qualities and someone is not perfect. But you can give a chance if only trying to improve and get better to make things work out.

Things for How to Be a Good Boyfriend

Alright, now I want to share some things that can help you to become a good boyfriend. And how to be a better person for you, your partner and the relationshi. It is not so easy but it should be good to do that. That will help you developing healthy relationship and enjoy afterward.

Consistently check on your girlfriend

It’s not so easy to do this because you might forget. Sometimes you don’t do it at all. But if you are a good boyfriend, would mean that you care about your girlfriend. And one of the signs is checking consistently about how she doing, how she feel. And if she need something.

Read also: What Does It Mean to Have a Healthy Relationship?

Maybe she want to talk about something. Being consistent is not doing it so many times a day. You can do it a couple times or a few times. But you need to make sure that you do it every day and consistent. Whatever way you use to check is fine as long as she tells you.

Help your girlfriend when she need

Another good thing to be a good boyfriend. Helping your girlfriend is very important. However, when she needed is most important. Even if you can’t being with her to look for a way is good. Maybe be present when an expert helping because being by her side is good as well.

Well, it’s my theory to be present when your girlfriend need help. However, it is not necessry to do it all the time. Maybe you could learn one or two things from that. So, either way, it will benefit you being with her.

Work to provide everything for your girlfriend

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Okay, here is a thing. Some people think provinding things with money is eveyrhing. Howver, that is not true. Providing things with money is very important. But also there are more important things. Such as comfort, pleasure, and other parts that a girl might need.

This is one of the important things for How to Be a Good Boyfriend. You don’t need to spend a lot money and you not giving your girlfriend enough comfort. That would be uselsess althoghI apprecioate the money you spent on it. Also, the thought of spending your money on her.

Use the arugments/fighting to achive something or avoid it at all

No relationship last without fighting but how to channel it is very important. This is part of life and the relationship. A good boyfriend won’t argue with you to win. Make you look fool or even to brag about it. When using the fighting and argument to achieve something.

Let’s say you argue to fix something. Reach a conclusion that can help to improve things. Well, for the fight we can say that to avoid hurting each other. You can avoid fighting at all which is something good for a healthy relationship. if it happens, don’t make it worse and understand why. How you can fix it to make thigns better.


These are some of the most important things to help you be a good boyfriend. However, there are more things. And you could learn based on what you have and what you missing. Make sure to find more about what you need to do to help you improve and be a better boyfriend.

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Thank you for reading and spending time on the blog. Another relationship post talking about boyfriend this time. Something we need to work on. Also, I mentioned things that can help you to improve yourself. The qualities important that a good boyfriend should have.

What do you think of these tips, things thatcan help to be a good boyfriend? Do you work on doing any of these? For the girls, what are your thoughts about this? Share you thoughts about this.

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Vasu Devan

Thursday 18th of May 2023

Interesting topic! For me, communication and trust is most important. It does not matter whether it is a boyfriend or girlfriend or just friend.

Fransic verso

Thursday 18th of May 2023

I see! I think it's very important to do that. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!


Monday 15th of May 2023

Your article on how to be a good boyfriend and build a healthy relationship is amazing! Your tips and advice are practical, thoughtful, and easy to follow. You provide a comprehensive guide for men to become better partners and build stronger relationships with their significant others. Thank you for sharing such valuable insights!

Fransic verso

Wednesday 17th of May 2023

Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

Fransic verso

Wednesday 17th of May 2023

Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.


Monday 15th of May 2023

Your advice on listening, showing appreciation, and making time for your partner was very helpful. Thank you for sharing your insights!

Fransic verso

Wednesday 17th of May 2023

I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!


Monday 15th of May 2023

Your tips on listening, showing appreciation, and making time for your partner were spot on.

Fransic verso

Wednesday 17th of May 2023

Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback!

Sonia Seivwright

Sunday 14th of May 2023

I really enjoyed reading this and I think it's a great message to share with your younger brother. It's true that no relationship is without its disagreements, but how we handle them is crucial. A good partner won't argue just to win or make you look foolish. Instead, they'll work with you to find solutions and improve the relationship. Avoiding fights altogether is ideal, but if they do happen, it's important to understand why and work together to make things better. Thanks for sharing this!

Fransic verso

Monday 15th of May 2023

That's great, thank you for reading and sharing your feedback.