Hello everyone and welcome to a new post for this week. It’s crazy how fast time is going. Today I’m back with another relationship tips post. And I want to talk about how to respect your wife’s feelings. The reason I want to talk about this is that it’s one of the things that make a healthy and good relationship that lasts long.
I’ve been posting a lot of things that when you combine them together, it helps you to have a good and enjoy your relationship with your partner. Although my partner and I are still yet to be a wife and husband. I can say that it’s very important to be ready for it. So, this post is going to be a good reminder for me in the future. Hopefully, it helps you as well. If you find it helpful, please consider sharing it with others.
How to respect your wife’s feelings and appreciate
As usual. I want to talk a little bit about this. Because there are a few important points that I need to share with you. Things that complete this and make it better for you to work on this. So, keep reading until the end and there will be interesting information you will find in this post about improving your relationship with your wife.
Who doesn’t want to have a good and healthy relationship? Well, I’m sure a lot of us do. And today’s post will be very important for you as a husband. Maybe if you are going to marry in the future. It is still good to write these things down to be ready for it. I love writing about relationship stuff because it’s for me and for everyone haha.
Q: Is it important to respect my wife’s feelings?
A: Aaah, you have this question? Well, I’ve got an answer for that. Imagine a base with a missing corner, you think that would stand still? So, respecting your wife’s feelings is very important to the relationship. And without it, it wouldn’t last for long or you can’t enjoy it(if somehow the wife still decided to stay with you).
Here are some common quotes about this. This shows it is very important.
Every good relationship, especially marriage, is based on respect. if it’s not based on respect, nothing that appears to be good will last very long. Said by – Amv Grant
Men are respectable only as they respect. Said by – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Respect is one of life’s greatest treasures. I mean, what does it all add up to if you don’t have that? Said by – Marilyn Monroe
Most good relationships are built on mutual trust and respect. Said by – Mona Sutphen
I know some people that don’t respect their wives’ feelings because they don’t know. And sometimes the wife endures the disrespect for the sake of keeping the relationship. Honestly, I admire these wives and how much they put in. However, as a husband, it’s important to pay attention to things like these.
It’s something you need to pay attention to it. You might be laughing or joking thinking things are good. When your wife is hurt and trying to keep it down. As you will keep reading, it will be clear how to respect your wife’s feelings properly. And more important things to know.
Why you need to respect your wife’s feelings
- Maintain a good relationship with her
- Treat her like a human being
- An excellent example for your kids
- Your love and bond will be forever
- Others will respect you and appreciate you
Well, if you know me, I always believe in a strong why. Something to get you going and make you do things. And everything has its why. So, I wanted to mention some of the reasons why you need to do it. However, there are more reasons depending on the couple and situation.
Respecting each other is a must and that includng feelings. It might be different but it is as important as respecting each other. So, please work on it for the sake of your relationship and being with the person you love. No need to make your lives awful by having this in your relationship.
Things you can do to change the habit of disrespecting your wife’s feeling:
Sometimes it can be a habit of the husband not to respect the wife’s feelings. Maybe grew up with that because of the negative example of the parents. Well, it doesn’t mean it continues and keeps the circle. There are a a few simple ways you can do this.
- Learn and improve your knowledge
It’s powerful when you have the knowledge. You will be able to do everything. From how to treat this and change the bad habit. Stories from others that can help you to have an idea how to start. Tips to help you deal when the moment occurs and not hurt your wife’s feeling.
- Seek help from experts and professionals
If you feel like you can’t fix it. And I know some people did this as well. Where they tried their best but still can’t control themselves. Well, please seek help from professionals and experts. Therapists and counseling will help a lot to fix this. Also, will make you more reposible to change.
- Challenge yourself to change
Well, sometimes you need to be determined to keep working. And when challenge yourself, it can make you keep going. And your wife will appreciate you for doing that and love you even more. Trust me, your efforts won’t go unnoticed even by your partner and the god will be with you as well.
These are just a few of many things you could do to change and respect your wife. Make sure your relationship is fun and enjoy your time with your partner by changing yourself. Dependig on the situation and how well you can do it. Sometimes you might need different things and make sure to know them before you start.
Ways to respect your wife’s feelings
Now, I want to share some of the ways how you can respect your wife’s feelings. This can help you to detemine whether you have this issue or not. Some people might not even know this is a thing in their relatonship. Because as I said, it’s something we pay attention to it.
Don’t raise your voice or raise your hand
Unforutanly, there are a lot of people who does this and it is not good for the relationship. The wife is not a child to raise the voice on her. Doesn’t matter if she did something wrong or did not do something as you want. Its possble to solve and deal with the issue without raising your voice.
Q: How to avoid raising my voice in a heated argument?
A: Good question, you need to remind yourself it is just an argument. And you are talking to your partner. So, also not worth raising your voice. Try to control your emotion when talking with your wife.
Some people think doing this can make you tough. Well, let me tell you that this is not going to make you tough. Being tough on your wife is not a good picture for you. Show some respect for your wife’s feelings.
Avoid being manipulative
When there is a manipulative husband, always doesn’t end well. Good communication and working together is the key.
- Don’t let her do anything she doesn’t want
- Respect her time and when to do things
- Communicate about going out and friends talking with
- Be a partner to your love and not a boss
- Give her a chance to share opinion and be involved.
There are many things that you can do to avoid this. And trust me, it makes your life both much, much easier. Also, develop an even better bonds and avoid cheating. Girlfriends and wives sometimes find a way with cheating when a husband/boyfriend is manipulative.
Listen to your wife
If you want to be a good husband and respect your wife’s feelings. Make sure to practice listening to your wife/girlfriend. Give her time to talk and share her opinoins. Don’t slient her or ignore what she has to say. That would is disrespcting thing to do ad end up having difficult time with each other.
Also, when she share things about how she feels or anything in that regard. Well, respect her and listen to what she says. Pay attention because maybe she might need help by just sharing things. Even the little things do matter with your partner and might be big in her eyes.
Never do things that upset
This is something people might see as joking but has boundaries. You need to avoid doing anything upset your wife or make things uncomfortable.
- Flirting with other women
- Mess with your wife’s feelings (such as false accusations)
- Being busy with other girls
Q: Does a prank count as a bad thing in couples?
A: Pranks can be good but they should have limit. Also, know when to do that because if your partner don’t feel well. Maybe not into that, you need to avoid it. It could be good and fun only if it’s not harmful and in the right time.
I’ve only mentioned a few of many things. You need to know when to joke and what to joke about. Because not everything will be taken as a joke and might lose your wife’s respect. Never do anything seriously that would upset your wife and respect her feelings no matter what.
Decide together and help her with home chores
Being equal is very important because she is human. This how you create the best relationship. Deciding together is a team work with the love of your love. Would you want to team with a stranger and not your love? The decision in everything can be good when it’s a teamwork.
And helping her with chores is another way to respect her feelings. Because she does a lot especially when being a parent. This is a good way to also give back to what she does for you. Therefore, put together a plan to help each other with things at home no matter what.
Be there for each ther help each other
Allow your wife to help you with your problems, Seeking her help might be a good idea, you never know. This can be a good way to respect her feelings. Being involved together in everything and being there for each other is a great way to have a good relationship.
She would feel noticed and good that she was able to help you. But never make her feel useless if she couldn’t. Her trying to help is enough and means something. People might not notice this but it does have a negative effect when you ask her for her and she can’t.
Conclusion How to respect your wife’s feelings and appreciate
Thank you for reading until this point. Another relationship post that I wanted to talk about and a good reminder for me and everyone. We need to work on respecting each other when we love each other. Including our feelings and everything about each. Hope this was helpful to you. Please don’t forget to share it with others if you find it helpful!
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All great tips for improving relationships. It is nice to see an article aimed towards men that helps them understand females a bit better!
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This is so well written and thoughtful. Respect for feelings is such a key thing in relationships that so many people do not even realize. Thanks for taking the time to write this!
Thank you so much and I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!
I appreciate these suggestions but it’s common sense! Just treat others (ESPECIALLY your wife!) how you’d like to be treated!
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I wish there was a romantic movie where a guy falls in love with a woman’s strong opinion on a political subject. Apart from this weird idea, your suggestions are so normal that every wife already follows but often is lacking on husband’s part. However, there are many husbands as well who do respect their wives genuinely and share the load.
Well, it should be both sides and not only the wife. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!
It’s so important for husbands to understand the value of emotional support and how it can strengthen their relationship with their wives. I especially appreciate your emphasis on communication and actively listening to your partner’s perspective!
Right? It’s very important we understand that. Thank you for reading!
This is such an awesome article to read especially for all couples! It’s very essential to know this for a happy and long married life! Totally love this article!
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Oh, this is something every man needs to read this to better understand. I think it is so important.
Haha, yup, men should know and understand this. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!
Respect is the cornerstone of any relationship and these are practical ways to show appreciation and respect to your partner.
Yeah, it’s very important that we need work on it. Thank you for reading!
These are really important. Without respect, no marriage can thrive and live in a loving and supportive environment.
Right? it’s very important to focus on it. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!
I love it when my husband takes proactive steps to demonstrate his respect for me.
That’s awesome, it’s nice to do that. Thank you for reading!
This article was so helpful!!! I loved being a partner, not a boss! So important
I’m glad it was so helpful! Thank you for reading and sharing your feedback!
Thanks for sharing the info! I always try to make my wife happy and make everyday Valentine’s Day for her.
That’s awesome. Thank you for reading and commenting!
Respect! Respect! Respect! It’s everything we all need and must give, once relating with other people in our lives. Thank you for this lovely reminder.
Yeah, it’s very important that we work on improving the respect in our live and relationship.
My Future Husband Must have this quality or at least read this post before we get married. I am not putting my emotional feelings on hold for a man. I am so glad someone is talking about this.
Thank you so much I hope you get the best husband.
Hahaha, what a great post to dive into. I agree communication has to be two ways not I like being actually listened to.
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Such great tips! As a wife I can attest to how important this is, and I know it’s true for how I treat my husband as well! Thanks for sharing these tips we all needed to hear.
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Respect and open communication are necessary for any successful marriage. Thanks so much for sharing.
Yeah, it’s very important to have both. Thank you for reading and commenting!
Great post! I should show this one to my husband 😉
Haha, thank you and hope he find it better.
Great content! These tips we very useful for both husbands and wives
Yeah, it’s very important to know. Thank you for your lovely comment!
Communication, respect, and treating others how you want to be treated is so important in relationships. Thanks for sharing.
Yeah, both are very important. Thank you for reading!
Even the best marriages take work but the effort is worth it! There’s lots of great nuggets in this post!
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Such a sweet and thoughtful post!
I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!
I love this post, it includes some really important tips. Respect is essential to a successful marriage and happy life. I speak from experience – one good relationship and then a happy thriving marriage. Thank you for sharing xxx
This year in May we will be married for 35 years, so you might say I have some experience. It works both ways. Respect each other’s feelings to make a marriage last
Wow, that’s awesome, and congrats. Thank you for reading and sharing it with us!
Respect definitely works both ways but it’s refreshing to see a male perspective for once rather than articles telling me how to be the perfect wife!
Yeah, it’s very important that both parties have respect.
These are great suggestions for those who may be having a hard time engaging in a healthy relationship. I know this was targeted for the guys who may need some of that good advice but I can see this also being applicable to friends as well. Great share.
Thank you so much! I appreciate you reading and sharing your thoughts!
Thank you so much!
You are correct on seeking help and challenging oneself on changing habits that do not help push your relationship forward. Sometimes what feeds your desires or is comfortable to you may be the very thing that causes someone else pain and deep discomfort.
Right? it helps a lot. Thak you for reading and sharing your thoughts!