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Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

Mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship. Well, here I am writing a blog post about relationships again.

It’s been a while since I wrote something about it. I lost the content I wrote and I need to get it back. However, I haven’t written something like this before.

I will share some tips that will help you. And mistakes that we need to avoid being in a relationship. You will know why as you keep reading.

These are from a 1-year relationship with my girlfriend. And if you find something similar that you work on. Let us know in the comment.

Mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship

Table of Contents

  • Mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship
  • 1. Doing things alone for the relationship
  • 2. Not talking about small and big problems
  • 3. Randomly living together
  • 4. Not developing a bond with each other
  • 5. Not including each other in things
  • Conclusion of Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

Some of the things that are on this list are. It’s been on my mind for a while and I wanted to share it with you. Finally, I get to do it in this post.

Now, let’s know why these mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship. And how it helps you in your relationship.

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Well, there is a lot that goes into a relationship. But that doesn’t make it impossible to enjoy it. Because it will be worth the effort with the right person.

You might work for a relationship. However, you need to determine if it’s the right person.

Why you need to know about the mistakes you need to avoid doing:

  1. Make it fun to be with each other with mistakes
  2. Easier to deal with problems when you avoid these mistakes
  3. No troubles for both of you as long as you avoid
  4. Strength the relationship when you avoid these

Avoiding these mistakes will help you to have a great time with your partner. Balance things in the relationship. Something I think all relationships should have. You can share your thoughts at the end about these mistakes.

Some of the things on this list don’t hurt the relationship quick. And it might ruin it in a long term. That will make your relationship suffer.

Something we don’t need if we are planning to have a relationship with someone else.

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As you read in the title. These things are actions that we do, but we need to avoid them. I know you may wonder what are these things. Well, keep reading to know and hopefully, you will find them helpful to you to keep your relationship safe and happy.

One thing you should know. Sometimes avoiding these might take some time. That means you will need to start doing it early.

Practice with your partner to be able to achieve and avoid doing it. Working on avoiding slowly is good too.

1. Doing things alone for the relationship

I want to start with the most important thing. And this is one of the things I wanted to talk about. And that is to balance the work between each other.

It’s not for all relationships. That is because some relationships already have it. Don’t need to worry about this one. Part of the Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship.

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But some boyfriends think that they can carry everything alone. This can also be for girlfriends. However, that’s not how relationships work.

Although, boyfriends should do things for their girlfriends. And that’s normal, but let me tell you what I mean by things.

There are some things that the two should work on. For example, being careful and fighting for the relationship.

Following the promise and things, both set up and follow. It’s only a few of the many things that we need to take care of.

Well, it’s why I added it to this list of the mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship.

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Also, both should work on balancing things in life. The boyfriends shouldn’t do it things alone. Well, it might not hurt the relationship right away.

But first, make it worse to enjoy it. And it progresses as it keeps happening.

2. Not talking about small and big problems

Well, I can say this happened to us. But I didn’t let it happen. Talking about problems in the relationship is very important.

One of the Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. It results in some negative results if you don’t pay attention to this one.

Some partners would love to skip talking about it. Because they don’t want to bother about it. However, it’s more important than you think.

Talking with your partner about the problems happening in your relationship is going to make it easier to live together and enjoy the company.

Whether it’s big or small. It’s important and one of the mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship. And we will need to talk with our partners about every problem. Because it could get worse in the future.

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.Reach an agreement about things happening in the relationship. How to tackle the problems. There are a lot of things you would need to do.

And it will help you to make life much better and allow you to enjoy your relationship. That’s why you need to learn about… These mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship.

3. Randomly living together

It’s one of the biggest mistakes that you will do. And that is living together randomly because it’s not going to end well for both of you.

If you love each other, you will set plans for both of you. Goals that you guys want to achieve. Make your life together more interesting and just live whatever.

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This is important to do it. And that’s why I decided to add it to this list of mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship. I feel like a lot of people already know about this one.

So, if you haven’t done it. I highly recommend you do it.

You would be able to last a long time living randomly. But it will be boring and it won’t last for a long time. So, I highly recommend that you don’t wait until it’s too late.

Start to make your life interesting by being in a relationship. Avoiding other mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship.

Well, I knew this one before I even started my recent relationship.

And I knew that I will need to make it interesting. Although we have goals and plans. There are also separate goals and dreams for both of us.

4. Not developing a bond with each other

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A relationship can last for a while without developing a bond with each other. However, it will be difficult to separate when you develop it.

Because it could be easy to break up if there is not that strong bond. Not all the mistakes you need to avoid being in a relationship will ruin the relationship quickly. And I said that earlier in this post.

Developing bonds can be through different ways. Such as going on a date together. Give your partner gifts and flowers. Being romantic with your partner.

Some people think it’s a waste of time. But that’s not true, and it’s part of being in a relationship.

It starts from the time you started the relationship. And you will need to keep doing it for as long as possible.

This way, it will help you to stay together for a long time. One of the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship.

Well, some people need to learn how to do it. That will improve only if you start doing it. So, if you don’t know anything. Just start doing it.

Things will get better and better every time the both of you do it. This is how we plan to improve as well.

5. Not including each other in things

Last but not least. Something I find interesting and not a lot of people do it. Well, I don’t know exactly how many people do it. But if you are doing this.

I would love to know more about it. So, make sure to share about it in the comment after reading this post.

It’s good to include each other in everything. Such as things you buy. And you don’t need to buy it for your partner. But asking if they need it will help.

Knowing that your partner thinks of you. That is an awesome thing to have in a relationship.

This is something that will take some time to do it easily. Well, it depends on the partner and if you guys already have this one or not.

But it’s really nice to have something like this in a relationship. Makes it more enjoyable.

Conclusion of Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

Thank you so much for reading until this point. Sharing some of the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. Things that can help you to have a better relationship. Allow both of you to enjoy your time together.

Now, it’s your turn to share your thoughts. And how are things going with the both of you guys?

If you are in a relationship, do you guys follow any of these things? Are there other things that are not on this list? It could be a help to others who read the comments.

Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

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Written by - July 29, 2022
Tags | mistakes to avoid in relationships, relationship tips, Self improvement, tips for relationships

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45 Comments

  • Anonymous July 30, 2022 at 6:20 am

    It’s very important to include each other when you are in relationships. Trust is built on honest communication and not holding back on things. Learn to appreciate each other’s differences and don’t allow yourself to become too familiar with each other so you learn to not take any for granted. I enjoyed reading. 🤗

    Pastor Natalie (ExamineThisMoment)
    Letstakeamoment.com

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  • Anonymous July 30, 2022 at 6:20 am

    These are some good points to consider when you are in a relationship. Another one can be not listening to your partner as that is important. Thank you for sharing.

    Lauren – bournemouthgirl

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  • Sarah Collins July 30, 2022 at 6:20 am

    Constant communication is key, making decisions together and talking about the small problems before they get chance to become much bigger. Great post

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  • Stephanie July 30, 2022 at 8:58 pm

    Communication is definitely important whether you are just starting a relationship or have been married 10 years like my husband and me. We do everything together, especially when it comes to big decisions for ourselves and for our kids.

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  • Ntensibe Edgar July 31, 2022 at 6:05 pm

    Hhhmmmm…these are very good tips to know. I hope my next partner bonds with me, just like I am glad to be with her.

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  • Pooja Sharma July 31, 2022 at 6:05 pm

    I completely agree with these tips you shared. Sharing and trusting each other is what makes a relationship long lasting

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  • Anonymous July 31, 2022 at 6:05 pm

    Great read. I’m working on myself as I wish to find someone soon. I will keep these points in mind as I enter into a relationship

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  • Oli July 31, 2022 at 6:05 pm

    Each relationship is unique, but those are some great points to keep in mind. Good communication should definitely be the foundation to great relationships.

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  • Tweenselmom July 31, 2022 at 6:05 pm

    Communication is so so important in relationships. You have to be open to each other because there are times there might be miscommunications or misunderstandings. Be clear with what you want and don't want 🙂

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:23 pm

    Yeah, this is very important. Thank you for reading!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:24 pm

    Thank you so much for reading and sharing!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:24 pm

    Yeah, that's true. Thank you for readig and sharing!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:27 pm

    Yeah, it's very important thing to have. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:28 pm

    Yeah, we really need to focus on communication. Thank you for reading!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:32 pm

    Yeah, that's true. Thank you for reading and sharing your lovely comment!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:34 pm

    Thank you for reading and sharing your lovely comment!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:35 pm

    I'm glad to know that. Thank you for reading!

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  • Fransic Verso July 31, 2022 at 6:35 pm

    Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!

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  • Anonymous August 1, 2022 at 6:37 pm

    You’ve shared some really great points here which I think a lot of people will find beneficial! Relationships are hard and I think you’ve shared some great pointers in regards of what not to do. Thank you so much for sharing this with us, great read Xo

    Elle – ellegracedeveson.com

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  • Bedabrata August 1, 2022 at 6:37 pm

    I read the complete post twice and I'm introspecting. I feel point number three cost me my last relationship. Although we were fond of each other, randomly living together without any future plan deterred us to grow.

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  • Angela Ricardo August 1, 2022 at 7:09 pm

    As they say, it needs to people to tango and in a relationship, you both need to work together for it to work. Those are some great tips to keep in mind and I believe communication is a big green factor.

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  • Fransic Verso August 1, 2022 at 7:15 pm

    I'm sorry to know that. Thank you for reading!

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  • Fransic Verso August 1, 2022 at 7:15 pm

    Yeah, it's hard to maintain a relationship

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  • Fransic Verso August 1, 2022 at 7:16 pm

    Yeah, we need to work for our relationship. Thank you for reading!

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  • Krystle August 3, 2022 at 5:48 am

    I am so guilty of these. I'm especially bad at #2 not discussing problems.

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  • Debbie January 19, 2023 at 5:22 pm

    Very insightful read. Being in a relationship can be a lot of work and important to avoid some of the mistakes you mentioned. Thanks for sharing these ideas.

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:40 pm

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your feedback about this.

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  • Julie January 19, 2023 at 5:34 pm

    Best advice: never go to bed mad, and realize arguments are healthy as long as a constructive solution is always the goal.

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:40 pm

      True, that is great advice, and hope people will realize that. Thank you for reading!

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  • Whitney Stewart January 19, 2023 at 6:10 pm

    This is such an insightful post. I’ve only been in a handful of relationships in my entire life and the entire time I felt like I was making it up as I was going along and after reading this I’m POSITIVE I made more yen one of these mistakes. No I now what NOT to do next time I find someone. Thank you so much for sharing this!

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    • Fransic verso January 19, 2023 at 11:39 pm

      I’m glad you found it an insightful post. Thank you for reading!

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  • Gervin Khan January 20, 2023 at 5:40 am

    This is such a great post and it’s very timely as Valentine’s day is fast approaching! This will be an awesome reference for all the couples out there! Thanks for sharing this with us!

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    • Fransic verso January 20, 2023 at 11:15 pm

      Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts about this.

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  • Alita January 20, 2023 at 6:27 am

    Small or big problems, we gotta talk about and solve them. I don’t want to make such mistakes in my relationship.

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    • Fransic verso January 20, 2023 at 11:12 pm

      That’s true, it’s very important to solve problems.

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  • Cinny January 20, 2023 at 10:18 am

    I agree that it’s important to have communication. Sometimes, there’s things that are hard to talk about but it is important still.

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    • Fransic verso January 20, 2023 at 11:10 pm

      Yeah, it’s very important to work on communication. Thank you for reading

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  • Sonia Seivwright January 21, 2023 at 5:07 am

    Thank you for this. A lot of these things I did during my relationships and dating days. Never again will I do them.

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    • Fransic verso January 22, 2023 at 12:03 am

      Thank you for reading and giving us your feedback.

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  • Monidipa January 21, 2023 at 7:44 am

    I have a 12 year relationship with my guy and although your points are very true and everyone must look out for them. However, I also feel It’s OK to make mistakes in your relationship, as long as you and your partner are willing to work together to overcome them. But if the same issues keep cropping up time and time again, it can start to take a toll.

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    • Fransic verso January 21, 2023 at 11:58 pm

      Wow, that’s awesome, and wish you guys the best life. Thank you for reading!

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  • May January 21, 2023 at 6:53 pm

    I think the biggest mistake is always not talking about the problems – especially the small ones. the big usually end up into full blown arguments, but the small ones, these are the sly little foxes that eat into the relationship. before you know it, you hate each other.

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    • Fransic verso January 21, 2023 at 11:48 pm

      Yeah, it’s very important to talk about it. Thank you for reading!

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  • khoingn | The Broad Life January 22, 2023 at 10:45 pm

    Definitely there are many problems that could happen in a relationship. It’s better to know and avoid the problems for a healthy relationship.

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    • Fransic verso January 22, 2023 at 11:59 pm

      Yeah, we definitely need to know the problems. Thank you for reading!

      Reply

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